Is it possible that we were all born Bi-Sexual?
Now I know that many of you out there will be horrified to hear that, and please remember this is just my opinion. An opinion I came to after many years of observing people. I found that as I discovered new things my curiosity grew and grew. It brought about a newfound thirst to learn even more.
Initially, the journey began by simply being best friends with a gay guy. Most gay guys in a gay club, generally don’t behave like they do outside the club or at public gatherings. I guess being in a gay club meant they could let go, and just be themselves. I was exposed to their openness. All the things they wouldn’t normally do in public, was on show, like holding hands, touching, grinding, dirty dancing, BJ’s in the toilets, kissing and anything and everything. I was quite uncomfortable seeing men together at first, but over time I understood things more and came to totally accept it. I found the club scene very interesting. I listened, observed, questioned, analysed and educated myself more.
Let me share just four of the things I’ve observed and discovered
# 1 Gay men generally swing both ways – I’m not saying they all do, but being an attractive woman that was also a bodybuilder and had a size 8 figure, I found gay men would often try and pick me up. Shocked by their attention, their response was “I’m gay but I’d jump the fence for a woman like you!”
# 2 There are ‘Gay Beats’, hidden in every town and every city. On the Gold Coast there are places along the spit, other random spots along the beach, in toilet blocks, in car parks and at the back of Adult Stores. Adult stores often have a room for men to use. They pay a small entry fee to go in, watch porn, masturbate; or hook up with other men. The store ensures a supply of condoms is always available.
# 3 Many ‘straight’ men visit Gay Beats. Yes, even married men. I have seen men go into them, spoken to them about it or been told by gay men. Let’s face it. Men are full of testosterone, they need to off load regularly. One woman is rarely enough.
# 4 Many men enjoy receiving anal – Prostate massage is a form of anal play that when done properly, can heighten a mans orgasm significantly. In my experiences as an escort, many men enjoy this as well as strap-on. Surprisingly, I also find that it’s often the more muscular, tattooed or Alpha type males that enjoy it the most.
So, what if we were really all born Bi-Sexual?
Here’s My theory…. Imagine a ruler. One end of the ruler is ‘Straight’ and the at the other end ‘Gay’. Some people may sit right near the edge of the ruler – lets call them the 2%ers (2% gay, 98% straight) – while the rest of the population are sliding in-between the two ends. Some 60/40, 50/50, 80/20, etc.
The men or woman that are 2%ers, may never even think about sex with someone of the same sex or even consider it in their lifetime. Then the others may prefer the opposite sex but might consider allowing someone to give them oral, another is prepared to give and receive oral, and another may be prepared to give or receive penetration, or both which has the title ‘Versatile’.
I will admit that when I share my theory with men and woman, there are still many that deny my take on things, and I certainly could be wrong? Society has had us believe for years, infected our minds with silly out-of-date information that has been handed down over 1000’s of years. If you hear something over and over again and again, it seeps through to your sub-conscientious and becomes a belief. A belief so embedded within us we cant see the forest from the trees.
Thankfully, I finally found the common sense to question things and analyse them more deeply……. maybe you should too!