Part Two: How to get a Woman in the Mood ……and Lick Pussy Properly!!!

By August 12, 2017Sex Coaching

Lets make you a STUD in the bedroom, shall we?

So, the arousing has begun but if you’re hopeless at licking pussy, you may kill her mood if you’re technique is crap.

If you’re like a lot of the men I meet, you may just be thinking your pussy licking skills are great, but found in most cases men really don’t have a clue. Now all you have to do is follow these steps and I guarantee you’ll have her moaning like you never have before.

Pay attention to a woman’s entire body, not just the obvious erogenous zones. Every part of her body can be used to arouse her, if its done the right way.

Step 4:  Tease, Tease, Tease…..

  1. Woman love being teased, the more you tease them, the more they love it. When your teasing her make sure you’re not predictable. Don’t make it obvious when your tongue will touch her pussy, make her wait, even if you can tell she’s begging for it.
  2. Try kissing the inside of her thighs as you slowly move upwards toward her pussy, stick your tongue out just before reaching the top of her thigh and with a soft wet tongue lick all the way through to the top of her butt cheeks. As you slowly work almost touching her pussy with your tongue but slowly lick and kiss back down slightly, nibbling and biting softly….

As a woman, I can tell you with certainty that having our pussies licked, feels incredible so guys, you have to get this part right…..

  1. stay in the moment and watch for body language, listen for her moans, feel her move her body under you!
  2. with a flat soft wet (use spit if you need to) tongue licking from below the opening of her pussy, slowly and steadily lick upwards – like when you’re eating ice-cream on a hot day… and it’s melting down the sides. If rimming is something you participate in, then use it too.
  3. When licking her pussy, remember to use your hands and/or toys… she has to be wet first though. No putting your fingers in before she is already a little aroused. Fingering a woman while licking her pussy can actually increase the amount of pleasure she experiences by at least double what she’s feeling with clit stimulation on its own.
  4. Be careful to stay in rhythm with her. You may need to really concentrate as it can sometimes be difficult to maintain rhythm and could allow her to lose focus if not done correctly. Ask her to tell you what’s good for her. An in and out motion or just stick with working the G Spot?

You have gotten her relaxed, aroused and all worked up….                                                                    so, now its time for her to orgasm.

  1. Allow her to take the lead with setting the rhythm, but stay in sync. Watch her for signals! Her movements, moaning and body langauge should help you discover what she really likes and its your job to continue doing whatever you are doing to make her so aroused, in that very moment. Trust me, now is not the time to change what your doing…. that will only lead to her losing her climax and you having to start all over again. Well, almost anyway. However, as the intensity rises increase the tempo and the pressure, and keep going!!! Some times it can take a long time for a woman to come…. so, just keep going. As long as you continue to get signals from her that she’s still enjoying it, just keep going.

You will of course, know that she has orgasmed when her body starts to spasm wildly. Once she has climaxed, she may need to to stop touching her clit for a while as it will become sensitive immediately after orgasm  – much like the head of a mans penis does.

What if it doesn’t work?

If you find that no matter what you do you still can’t get her to climax…… it will be one of two things.  She either wasn’t in the mood, or you haven’t stimulated her adequately, or licked her pussy the way she likes.

Talking will solve that one… she could have things on her mind which are then preventing her from relaxing enough for her to cum?

 

Well, now all you have to do is follow the plan, and ask questions….. and if you finally master it….. YOU will officially be A STUD IN THE BEDROOM!!

Congratulations in advance!! 

 

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